Lessons learnt from living after the loss of a laptop

(wow very alliterative)

 

On Tuesday, the 2nd of June 2026, I sustained an injury to the ass, I won't go into detail (it was largely my fault), but the result was that I was heavily advised to not sit down (say, at my desk) until it healed up. Initially this was a somewhat daunting prospect, I usually spend a solid 70-90% of my day sat at my desk, using my modern macbook, docked to my monitor and mouse. Certainly I wouldn't have done this if I hadn't been forced to by these stakes, but I took it in stride and made one of my biggest lifestyle shifts in years (yes really), this blog post is about that experience, and the lessons learnt from it.

 

My daily routine initially didn't shift too much, I would play youtube videos on my laptop, scroll bsky and check in on discord. The main difference I noticed was that because I was using a singular monitor, I generally focused on whatever video I was watching way more intently. On a dual monitor setup it's so easy to put something playing on the top screen then switch your focus to the bottom screen. Sure I still had the option of multitasking (macOS' virtual desktops feature proved very helpful for that), but I had to choose to do that, and often I'd just pause whatever video I was watching so I could better focus on whichever task I was more interested in doing, that need for constant background noise seems to have diminished (doubly so since I've been watching stuff so much it can often feel like there isn't much left that I want to watch).

 

I noticed that I was generally using my Bluetooth headphones way more often than I would have at my desk. Even though my audio technicas and AKGs have long enough cables, lying down made a fully wireless system more preferable, however I also noticed the battery life on my headphones a lot more because of this. Previously it was basically a nonconcern, I'd just use them as much as I wanted (maybe 2 hours a day, more if I was heading outside now that my phone doesn't have a headphone jack grr) and plug them in once every month or two when the robot voice started saying battery low. Now I've had to plug them in maybe once or twice a week? Still pretty good and I've never had them die on me, but still not ideal. Likewise I actually had to consciously plug in my macbook to charge for the first time in ages, previously it'd sip juice whenever it was docked but that obviously wasn't an option anymore, I still wasn't super precious about it's battery life but I think I was charging it once every day or two? Pretty good for a laptop as smooth and powerful as that one to be honest.

 

But that wasn't all I got up to, I'd started a playthrough of bravely default on my 3DS back in may after recommendation from someone on bsky, which I'd already been doing on my bed instead of sat at my desk (a habit I'd formed from playing stuff on my steam deck in this room in October), and that continued here, but I started up a couple other habits too, namely booting up my dreamcast to play some quick burst games once a day.

 

Specifically Cosmic Smash and Capcom VS SNK (the first one). These games use the arcade model of starting from scratch each time but with experiences from previously plays helping you get further in newer ones (cosmic smash relying more on memorisation and technique, while CVS is just a fighting game so it was mostly just getting a feel for how it played). It'd been at least months since I'd last gotten into a habit like this, I wanna put it down to my high levels of stress from uni work (and uni life) that had pushed the idea far back into the depths of my thoughts, but I honestly hadn't really been playing much of anything for a while.

 

On Thursday I was able to head outside to attend a HRT appointment, which marked a level of healing for me, and on Friday, with little over 24 hours before the last submission deadline of the year, I was able to lock in just enough to get my last assignment (a video essay about representation in cars 2 yes really it wasn't very good) over the finish line of just barely good enough. I submitted it at 8:58 on the Saturday (I had the deadline as 9am in my calendar) and was ready to kick back for a bit. Then on Sunday evening, while in the process of stripping and making my bed, I bumped into my chair which knocked over a glass of milk I'd left on my desk, spilling it, right where my open macbook was. I know people say it isn't worth crying over spilt milk but boy was I tempted!

After cleaning it all up the macbook was alive so I dried it off and wiped it down as best I could and turned in for the night. I then woke up the next morning to a very much not alive macbook, it would make the charging noise when plugged in but would not turn on. Greattttt

 

So I wiped it down again but more thoroughly, left it to dry, tried turning it on again to no avail, drained it even more (you'd be seriously surprised how much milk can be contained in a keyboard and some USB ports), but no dice, it was thoroughly dead jim. So, I booked in an appointment with the apple store and switched to a different device, my steam deck. Why not my desktop PC? Well besides the fact I'm just really not a fan of using windows for daily computer stuff, I'm still meant to be avoiding sitting at my desk remember! And I hate living out of a phone (especially with how bad youtube ads have gotten recently, so the steam deck it was!

 

 

This is like another part section thing if you're skimming maybe stop and read on from here because this is the part post-laptop-loss

 

So for the second week of this experience, I was forced to branch out even further than I had before, and this is where I really noticed some of my older habits starting to unravel.

This week I had nothing to worry about, no videos, no work, just a lot of time to fill with relaxing without a choice in the matter. So let's get into it

 

The biggest shift I noticed this week was that I was watching youtube videos and scrolling social media even less than before. At least when I had the macbook there wasn't much friction to flicking between a fullscreen video and the rest of my desktop when I wanted to, not to mention the raw speed and efficiency of accessing my desktop through a modern mac. Now? Sure I could watch stuff on desktop youtube but it was just slow and unresponsive enough that I didn't get much of an urge to look through my recommendations very long, if I was on there I'd put on a video and watch it through to the end with even more focus than before. Though watching videos just became less appealing to me on the deck. Whenever I wanted to use it in desktop mode I'd have to hold it in two hands and flick around with the trackpad and click with the triggers, and sure that works but it adds more friction, that combined with the smaller screen meant that often if I didn't know what to do in desktop mode I'd just boot back into the deck's gaming mode and fire up a quick burst type game there.

 

This was a double edged sword, on one hand it meant I was more likely to spend time playing something than watching or scrolling, but it reduced the likelihood of me switching to my 3ds or TV, so my bravely default playthrough, already strained after 20 hours, slowly fell down my list of priorities. But what was I playing on the deck? Let's get into that

 

The first game I wanna talk about is Nubby's Number Factory, I'd been recommended this game a while back, downloaded the demo and then never played it so I decided on a whim to check it out and almost immediately afterwards bought the full version. This game has been my quick hit instead of social media I'm barely even exaggerating, each playsession starts you from zero, with only the knowledge gained from your previous experiences carrying over, on the surface that isn't too different from the arcade games I'd been playing but Nubby's also has so many random chance elements that have such a heavy influence on a playthrough that I'm quite sure it would be considered gambling if it wasn't a one-time purchase, yes it's one of those games.

I'm not especially keen on the idea of getting hooked on a game like this that can drain a lot of my time (I specifically avoided balatro for that reason), but my thought process here is that I already have a lot of time to fill, and I'm generally only doing one or two plays per session before quitting the game and doing something else, such as the next game I'm smoothly seguewaying into

 

<Parking Garage Rally Circuit> is a game I'd already spent a decent amount of time with around when it first came out. A fun, if at times frustrating racer which scratches at a lot of my specific itches that come from a childhood spent playing Mario Kart DS. Since it was installed on my deck and relatively high up the list of recently played games I decided to fire it up only to realise Oh yeah that's right they recently put out an extra set of tracks as DLC that I'd bought but never played. So what could've been a quick single playsession turned into a week+ of regularly visiting the game, playing through all 8 of the new tracks in the 3 different vehicle classes, then more time on top of that for pushing the leaderboards on endurance mode (my preferred way to push myself in this game), as well as having some fun with custom tracks (which were also new to me as I think that feature was added after I'd previously stopped playing).

This game felt a lot better to be playing than Nubby's but at times did prove quite intense, meaning I'd sometimes leave sessions a bit more tired than I'd started. But the immense particles of Nubby's and general fightinggameness of CVS all fucked up my eyes in one way or another so this wasn't really much different, just meant that I'd have to watch out for that kind of thing and keep my playsessions short and sweet.

 

Oh wait I haven't told you about the vision thing have I

 

Yeah so on top of the recent developments with my ass, my eyes (vision?) has been majorly fucked for a while now. It started around late 2023, crescendoed in summer 2024 and then kind of disappeared in 2025, only to come back in march of this year. What am I referring to specifically? Well it's hard to pin down. I'd have a big scary incident where my vision would rapidly worsen to the point where if I looked down at my hand I couldn't see all the fingers there, then after the incident I'd get into a routine where whenever I noticed my vision getting worse I'd panic and discontinue whatever activity I was doing to rest up (usually lying down on my bed, often with an audiobook). This obviously massively sucks, it's incredibly debilitating when it's in effect, and horrifically anxiety inducing when it isn't, so if you wanna know why I haven't been out to the arcade nearly as much in 2024 and 2026, there you go.

What's the cause of all this? Fuck if I know. I have a history of migraines but I'm quite sure it's unrelated, I've seen copious eye doctors and none of them could see anything wrong with mine. The best lead I got was that it might be a weird manifestation of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome? I saw a doctor who said the symptoms I had back in 2024 matched up with that but my issues seem really mild compared to most of the people I see online talking about CFS so I don't wanna coopt the term for my own (admittedly still incredibly debilitating) issues.

That's the weird thing right? I'm massively affected compared to most of the people around me, I can't just go out or watch a film without intensely worrying about stuff, but compared to a lot of the people I see online I have things way better (especially back before I was forced into this not sitting rule).

This vision shit is also why I'm so outspoken about photosensitivity and flashing lights, which sucks when you're friends love live music and your own hobby is rhythm games but now I'm getting way off from my Lessons Learned from this new experience. If you resonated with any of this and would want me to write about it more Please let me know

 

 

So, let's write a conclusion to this post.

 

As things stand right now, my body is on its way to healing but it is taking its sweet time. I'm about to finish up my second week of this experience, and I've got another 6 days to heal up before I'm moving out of my uni halls.

Obviously nobody wants to see their health get worse and be prevented from doing stuff, but I also think I'm gonna look back and massively value the lessons learned from this time (and hopefully apply some of them going forwards!). It's been really nice leaning to (literally) lean back and take things slower. It seems summer is always a period of rest and media for me (hell I got up to so much last year I did a video about it), so hopefully this year continues the trend. I'm hoping I make more use of my bed than usual (which is to say actually lie on it during the day by choice instead of only using it for my eye rests and sleeping), I hope I'm more comfortable with hopping around between my devices, and making use of more than just the web browser on my main laptop.

As for you reader, well, I don't know exactly what you'll take away from this. If you know me in person hopefully this might explain why I've been a bit different lately. If you know me online hopefully this gave you a bit of a glimpse of what my life is like. And for anyone else, I hope you're able to take away some of the lessons I learnt, without nearly as much hassle.

 

Thanks for reading!

 

(Incidentally this was written entirely on my PowerBook G4, running Microsoft word 2004 (which surprisingly can export straight to a .htm file!). The keyboard on this thing is really nice to type on and I appreciated the calm of having an offline device that let me focus on writing (with some music playing in the background). I will say this thing is hot and slow, I don't think I've ever seen a word processor lag like this before, and that M3 Macbook Pro has seriously spoiled me in terms of heat so swapping to this thing has taken a bit to adjust to. If I can get over the performance issues I might genuinely put this into service as a dedicated little writerdeck, I'd recommend getting one but they're super hard to find working these days.)

 

Okay that's actually everything now, take the <back> button and leave.

 

 

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